Month: May 2011

Expectations, expectations….

I learned an important lesson last weekend about expectations, and it seems like it’s one I learn every few weeks or so, but it somehow doesnt sink in. See, I pride myself in being an idealist. My style, haircut, home, job, interests may change from time to time, but one thing I cans say Ive always been is a DREAMER. I’m sure many can relate. I have a great imagination, and I spend alot of time in my head looking at things as they should be, but always being tremendoulsly dissapointed at the reality, because things aren’t as good as I imagine them. I imagine a future, all furnished and polished, yet when I face reality, it doesnt look like it, and it makes me question whether my reality is NOT as it should be. How silly is it that, I think my reality is the wrong one, AND NOt the way I imagine things? I read this somewhere, when life doesn’t fit your expectations don’t change your life, change your expectations, and I have a hard time practicing it. …