Month: February 2011

writers block

  I read this recently in a book my dear friend gave me, and the author writes about becoming a writer and the advice her very wise therapist gave to her: “write when you’re stuck.” Since I’ve started this blog, my entries have come fairly easily. I have an idea, I sit, and it all pours out on this blog, with a continuous theme and everything. It’s kinda magical how it comes together, because it usually takes a life of its own. I dont write it, it writes me, and teaches me. But lately, I’ve felt stuck.  Of course, I can still write….but I have found a captive audience only comes when we are honest, because truth transcends everything, and finds a home in the heart of those who are receptive to it. It’s no surprise my writers block mimics the real blocks I have felt come over my life lately. I don’t feel particularly balanced, or healthy, or wise, or “on it”. I don’t have any answers, if anything, more questions. If you are human …

VALENTINES!!

Valentines!!! WHAT a fraud of a holiday!!! But still I, (like most women) am expecting some flowers and chocolate out of it. So I thought is would be appropriate to write about LOVE. Want to know the recipe for a long lasting, fruitful relationship: Ready, Here it is…………………………………… FALL IN LOVE WITH YOURSELF!!!!!! Some of you have stopped reading at this point, figured it’s not worth your time. But for those who are still with me, you have nothing better to do, and I appreciate you for it 1.    RESPECT yourself: How are you disrespecting yourself at this present moment? It could be my abusing your body, either through drugs, alcohol or food. It could be by not getting enough sleep, or taking on too much, consequently always stressed. It could be with negative self talk, maybe you wake up with the thought I’m not good enough, I CANT I CANT!!!!! Now in what ways are you respecting yourself? Are you taking care of your body as you should. Are you listening to your own …